The power of Zipping up

Do you always have a problem listening other than taking or you are the least type of people who love listening other than being an oasis of repetitive words. Alright, this is for you all…

When you talk in a group of people, maybe your friends or colleagues, You open up doors for them to start exploring you ie, your behaviour etc. You just need to give them a minute to start judging you, Just one minute and they will have more of you than you can think of.

Lets say you are the kind of guy who wanna be quiet and listen to the gifted, you won’t only learn from them but also they won’t know you and so they will end up teasing calling you names like a hypocrite if not dumb. Right now lets see the benefits of those who talk more if not much and those who they call silent killers :.

BENEFITS &QUALITIES OF THE MOST TALKATIVE PEOPLE

u At first they will pull a crowed who think that there is something important being said, but after that, the crowed will free away from them.

u They will notice the silent killers faster than you can think who they will start teasing with rude and hurtful words just to get a word out of them.

u They are also the type of people who will read more jut to have something to say at all time. The will wait for BBC news at the clock just to be news casters later in in the day.

BENEFITS AND QUALITIES OF SILENT LISTENERS

u When they are in a crowed and they ain’t talking, there are two things that you can’t tell about them. These quality acts as a protective shield for them.

One is that you can’t tell whether they are wise fools.

u Secondly is that you can’t tell whether they are supporting what you talking about or not.

u Due to their ability of listening, the tend to consume more information which they highly filter just to ensure that it is true. That’s 1hy when the are allowed to talk, most of the times they talk sense.

u They also know when one tells a lie but they are always ready to correct an era of speech

They are also the kind of people who will be happily welcomed in a group but after one hour or more while a conversation is going on, you will notice that they haven’t spoken not even a single word. Don’t be surprised when after one hour of silence, you’ll hear them say…good bye and a see you later.

My advice is ; to the talkative, just keep talking if makes you feel fine and please don’t judge the silent hearts wrongly, but use them to confirm your information as true or even useful but if they say to you they don’t have an idea or they don’t know what you are talking about, please don’t blame them, it’s only that they don’t want to tell to you any lie.

And to the silent; keep doing what you’re cause that’s just perfect. When you are teased with bad names please just be calm, try to take cause I know you are frank and you don’t want to talk anything if it is of no help to you’re group. Just be silent as you filter all that you trying to learn something new, when your time comes, be who you are, give them all the helpful information that they need ensuring that you are not overdoing it.

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